Life Top Secret No. 1 - Secrets We Should Keep

Secrets are meant to be just as they were - secrets.

They were never meant to be told or talked about, and especially shared with others. Secrets known are by no means should still be considered as secrets. So what happens when your most secured secrets being revealed? It usually leads to a world war three or a broken relationship. Anything that you think can be the worst.

Well, so far no secrets resulted to the end of the world though…

People get busted all the time. It is pretty normal stuff. Secrets revealed often times damage a relationships, reputations, marriages as such, and there are also cases that it can be all three. Let’s just face it, the world isn’t as simple as we wish it would be. There are few things that we just simply cannot talk about. There could definitely be more to this list though.

Scandals

Don’t ever assume it as a simple thing, something that you can forget it over the next meal, even if it is a one night stand. Things can get worse at times. Some people get themselves involved in an affair just for the sake of the fun. But beware when it gets rough, especially when you’ve fallen hard, in love, then it’ll be a major problem for you. In other words, you are digging your own grave. People who engaged in this kind of infidelity are usually very lonely and feeling neglected, couldn’t commit to a monogamous relationship or simply, they’ve fallen out of love with their current partner. There are better ways to solve a problem, and a scandal isn’t one of them. Moreover, you’ll definitely be downright burdened with scandals as your secrets - alas, emotionally. If not, you’re probably being very insensitive or simply a total jerk.

Talking about your exes

Recalling and blabbing to your current partner about your past loves is an absolute no- no. The last thing that your girlfriend or boyfriend wants to hear from you is about your ex, whether it be good or bad stuff. Just talking about them indicates that you just can’t get over him or her. So ease up on the stories, or better yet keep it to yourself unless you’re being asked. And even if you are being interrogated, you don’t have to talk about everything about him or her.

Still living with your parents

It is perhaps okay with women, but not men. Woman may at times find men who lived with their parents a little too dependent, especially when they’re way beyond the age to move out and find they’re own nest. Nonetheless, there are also men who lived with his parents and still are very independent. There are usually the rational as to why a man rather lives with his parents than enjoy the total freedom that life can offer. Well, it’s not that you should never tell your partner about your current household status, rather keeping it to yourself for a while and tell it later to see your partner’s reaction. You can determine it from there if she understands or not, especially if you’re with a very good and strong reason to be living with your parents.

You like her or his friend

Nope, it’s not impossible for this to happen, although it is merely an infatuation or lust. It’s something that’s rather untouchable. You see it, but can never touch because you know it’ll hurt you or others around you one way or the other. Just imagine if your feelings are answered right back. Yes, it is sweet. Love is sweet but yet can be melancholic and chaotic at times. And getting in an affair with your partner’s best friend is unquestionably spells nothing but bad news. So, keep it down and keep it a secret until it all go away. And if it doesn’t, that only means it’s your cue call to call the current relationship off.

So there, I’ve said it. Some secret just have to remain as they are - secrets, and if you’re seriously thinking of living in a world that’s at least far from chaos, you’ll probably give a serious thought on keeping your secrets safe, and sound.. .

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