Signals of Relationship Trouble and Breakdown - When to seek help

Written by ebazaar on January 20, 2009 ⋅

Are you sensing something is not right about the two of you? Are you feeling like your current relationship signals troubles more than peace?

Perhaps it is the time that you should ask yourself whether you need help or otherwise. Sometimes, you feel like something is really wrong but you may tend to overlook the signals and signs of a relationship gone bad.

They are some people who are more in love with the relationship itself rather than their respective partners. When this sort of thing happens to you, then it is time that you seek for a solution. Relationship, as simple as it seems on the surface is actually has a very complex nature to it since it involves the matter of hearts. However, it is not that hard to recognize the indicators of a relationship turned bad since a majority of relationship breakdowns were more gradual with clear signs and indications as it occur. But, some people just choose not to see any of it because they are simply afraid of losing.

When this kind of thing happens, perhaps you would like to remind yourself of the consequences. Let it be and it will get worse each day until to the point of no return, or mend it before it gets too late.

Here are a few of the signs that show you are having a relationship trouble and breakdown.

There may be more, but what is listed here are the most obvious ones:

There is a lack of communication and interaction between the two of you. There are even cases where you don’t even know what to say to each other, feeling that there is nothing important that you can share together. It is somehow proven, even in marriage that a communication breakdown is one of the major warning signs of a relationship problem.
Arguments and fighting has become more like a routine than your last resort. When there are the kinds of arguments that were somehow violent and abusive in nature, then you’d probably give a serious thought of getting out of the relationship as soon as possible.
You are directing your attention to something or ‘someone’ else, probably on the look out for other potential partners because the current one bores you, neglecting you or simply not even 90% set on you. This includes seeking comfort, care and understanding elsewhere too.
The time spent together is minimal or none at all. You or your partner rather spend leisure time alone or with friends and not together. When this kind of thing happen, perhaps you would want to explore the reason why you’re feeling in such a way.
You feel like bearing a very heavy burden when you are together. Most of the time, you are fixing your composure and covering up, telling yourself everything is okay when you simply feel like it doesn’t. What’s the reason for a heavy heart? You should start looking for the answer and solution. Usually, it will be a burden when you can’t be who really are, or feeling scare that by being yourself you would lose him or her.
The whole relationship is lacking in intimacy. Sex has become more or less compelling rather than enjoyable. You don’t jump on one another anymore. The sight of your partner doesn’t excite you anymore. You don’t even share the same bed and room anymore when you’re living together.

If you are experiencing more than two things described above, you’ll probably should give your relationship a reconciliation session. Detect and act fast before everything’s too late and beyond repair.

There are so many ways to improve your love life and relationship nowadays, with abundant reading materials and professional help for relationship trouble and breakdown available today.

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