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Although there are no exact rules of dating, there are certain patterns and predictable ways that you’ve just got to know if you’re trying to win his love and heart, till he be yours for keep.
Learn How to Attract Him (and His Attention)
Tips No.1: Don’t ask him for the first date
If you want to be on the first list on his speed dial list, perhaps you should consider giving lots and lots of ‘let’s get on a date’ hint, but never feel tempted to ask him out first. Seems a little tough right but the result will be worthwhile. Let him chase you, most men loves this. However, don’t be passive. Show him in whatsoever ways that you are interested about something that involves going out, like the upcoming concert, the new restaurant in town, the new movie coming out etc. This way you are indirectly saying that you are interested in him and you want to do something together.
Do ask him out for the first date IF…
- He’s too shy and seems not confident at all, and you feel like it’s useless to wait even for a hundred years.
- He’s got huge potential to be your prince charming, and you know it’s just too dangerous to let him be - before some other woman snatch him first!
Tips No.2: Say no to last minute plans
No to HIS last minute plans, not yours. No matter how much you fancies him, if he calls you out of the blue on Friday afternoon asking for a date that night, chances are he’s having you as the last resort. Reality has it that man ask you out last minute because they are waiting for a better one appear in front of them, or you never know if his date called him off and he’s trying to console himself by asking you out, regardless of him knowing that you have a thing for him or no. So, never cancel your plans for him, and even if you don’t have one, just make one up! If he’s really into you, he should have the date plan out well beforehand and call you up a few days before, right?
Do say yes to is last minute plans IF…
- He’s got that plan which is too tempting and impossible for you to decline, like the ticket concert to Celine Dion’s concert or a Mediterranean vacation. You know, sometimes you’ve just got to use him up, as the punishment for making you his last resort.
- He came to your office with a bouquet of flowers (I meant lots and lots of roses) with the picnic basket. That’s just a surprise date he was planning for you after all…
There’s more to Love Relationship Tip: Smart Ways to Win His Love and Heart, so wait till my next post! Have a nice day~
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