Friendship and Love: Best Friends Forever

Written by Rei on October 25, 2009 ⋅

Love comes in all forms, including friendship. What should best friends do?

Friends come and go, but later, they’ll come again. You’ve just got to admit it, there are times when you need your friends, more than your family. It’s pretty complicated actually but even if the truth hurts or disappoint you, you just have to accept it. There are things you can’t do with your family but you’re able to do so with your friends and vice versa. That’s how things go, that circumscribed friendship. But if you’re able to perceive this freely, you won’t have to experience severe heartbreak with friend’s related problems.

Remember, your friends are people too, and they are a bunch of people with their own families and worries. So, don’t blame them when they can’t be there ALL the time, even if they are your best friends. But a good friend will always offer you their sympathy and care even if they can’t physically be there beside you. They’ll give you a short phone call at least, even when they’re really busy. But when they don’t, your best bet is to assume they’re just as stressed as you are.

Your friends have feelings too. They get jealous, angry, heartbroken and even moody sometimes. There are even best friends who backstabbed one another, quarrel and fight over things. But only to see yourself finding way back to each other. You’re pretty used to this you say and it’ll be lonely and incomplete without those fights. Because you know what, friends should forgive and forget. Even though it starts on a new loop it’s fine because accepting them, should be on the bad and the good sides.

Yes, a friend can hurt you. Because we can’t read each others mind. So one thing you can do is to say sorry often for your invisible sins and misbehaviors towards your friend. That should be able to set the alarm in their mind, and it’s perfectly applicable in cases of the ugly truths being said and will be said in the future.
If you’re expecting trust from your best friends, you can, partially because no one’s perfect. And even if the dishonesty revealed made you fall, expect them to be the one to bring you up again. If they’re a real good friend, they will support you standing back up again, and later put the smile back on your face. The world is not a setting of fairy tales. They’ll be sad moments and happy moments, and so it goes with your best friend. That’s love and friendship for everyone - the truth everyone have to learn to accept.

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