Do You Think You Deserve Your Partner?

Living in this world and loving someone can lead you to all kinds of questions. Some may not even seem logical but it’s there, the feelings there, the puzzle is there and you have no other choice but to either question yourself or others. Right?

Do You Think You Deserve Your Partner?

We might be getting straight to the issue of inferiority complex in a relationship but it’ll be too harsh to categorize it as that. But it is the reality. There are some people, even after a while in a love relationship think that they don’t deserve their partner, as if they are lucky being with him or her. Well, if it remain as a momentary kind of piece of mind, then it’s harmless but this sense of ‘unworthiness’ if kept for quite some time can drive one to break with their partner.

Inferiority Complex in a Relationship

Many reasons contribute to this feeling of inferiority complex in a love relationship. The factors of inferiority complex in a love relationship could be:-

• Difference in family background and status
• Differing career disposition between the two
• Differing social life and physical attraction (it really happens)

Well, those are some that I can think of, but I believe those are the most common ones. There are really the positive side and negative side of this issue, really and it really depends on the factor and also the situation. For example; if a very attractive and sexy girl was really into you, who is just normal and perhaps (you’d think!) not as attractive, you might have to questioned her motive and you have all the rights to test it out. If she turns out true, then she’s for keep and you got no reason to feel inferior in whatsoever ways. If it turns out she’s in for a reason, then the fact is that - not that she’s too good for you, rather, you are just too good for her. Talking bout friends with benefit…

That’s just one situation. There could be many. But seriously, being on the optimist side, let say you’re with all these differences but you love one another, there should be no reason for you to feel inferior that could sometimes even lead to your decision to break up - that just show that you don’t love him or her enough right?

If you love someone and with that someone love you back just as much, why let it go? Loving someone and having someone love you back just as much as you love him or her is just like saying that you deserve one another!

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