Love comes in all forms, including friendship. What should best friends do?

Friends come and go, but later, they’ll come again. You’ve just got to admit it, there are times when you need your friends, more than your family. It’s pretty complicated actually but even if the truth hurts or disappoint you, you just have to accept it. There are things you can’t do with your family but you’re able to do so with your friends and vice versa. That’s how things go, that circumscribed friendship. But if you’re able to perceive this freely, you won’t have to experience severe heartbreak with friend’s related problems.

Remember, your friends are people too, and they are a bunch of people with their own families and worries. So, don’t blame them when they can’t be there ALL the time, even if they are your best friends. But a good friend will always offer you their sympathy and care even if they can’t physically be there beside you. They’ll give you a short phone call at least, even when they’re really busy. But when they don’t, your best bet is to assume they’re just as stressed as you are.

It was kind of amusing to know the fact that while I was writing an article about single successful women having affair with married men, it was actually happening right under my nose. Maybe I did hit it at the right time.

A few days ago I went to see this good friend of mine who works in a place not too far from where I was working for a lunch at a medium class restaurant not too far from both of our workplace. Why I chose that place was probably quieter than any other restaurants around since the food was rather expensive for a luncheon to begin with. But, anyway I fancy the indulgence once in a while, and plus, the food is good too.

So there we were sitting and talking like old friends does, and we also start asking about each other’s love life. That was when she confessed of her intimate affair with a man, who is someone else’s husband. I kept my cool and try to react as professional as I can. She was pretty and I kinda of understand why she has resorted to this kind of love relationship, but I couldn’t help myself wondering if it’s all worthwhile. She was of higher rank in position than the guy and all I can think of is him using her.

It is rather translucent, in a working life, working hard alone doesn’t pay off as we thought it would. Simple to say, hard work alone doesn’t really push your career development to the desirable level that you wanted it to be. What you need to do is to learn how to work smart at certain point of working life. You should learn to save more time (so naturally you’ll be able to cover more work to be done) and save your energy as well.

Here are tips and advices for career women

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Ø      Have a strategy or plan one if you don’t have initially

No one likes to work for more than 8 hours a day. Psychologically too, working for more than 8 hours a day will falter your concentration and reduce the quality of your own productivity - and, this ‘overtime’ work that you have to do is usually due having no pre-planned strategy. This is one simple strategy that you should apply when you are working: which is simply, do what is more important first and less important saved up for later. So you can start by writing down all your targeted tasks to be done and have a priority check list.

Motivation, I’d say is a necessity in life. No one can get over something without words of courage, whether loudly or silently said. Sometimes, certain motivation and inspiration will be inculcated in our head without us realizing it, and when in the time we need to hear and think it through again, it’ll eventually come back to head. I’ve prepared another string of good words of motivation and quotes for you. Enjoy and learn.

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Without your involvement you can’t succeed.
With your involvement you can’t fail.
-Anonymous

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Do not face a problem as A problem but face it as
A Challenge; Problems will come and will go
-AnIzma