Divorce is not easy at all, for both parties as well as other people as well. For some people, divorce is like a taboo. A somewhat impure, wrong and absolutely detested action to resort to. Perhaps, it is because it is not only the partners are affected but surrounding people as well, like children and other family members. However, whichever course it came around to, the children would probably be the one that are most hurtful.

So many things have to be taken into consideration. It may not be as simple as that Shakespeare’s saying - ‘To leave or not to leave’. But the world has changed, and so has the people who are living in it. The modern and independent way of thinking may have led us to extraordinary liberation, but it also led to transcending selfishness and individuality. We often forget to considerate. There are hard times in all marriages and some people decide to try and work it out, while others tend to just want to give it all up as fast as they can.

You can ask any woman in this world whether they can tolerate cheating, or not. The answer is always a fast and simple ‘no’. The only possible ‘yes, I can’ was probably based on the circumstance that she herself is playing the forbidden game behind her partner’s back. It’s a little too much to be demanding on a relationship when you just know that you simply can’t commit in the first place.

On the constant basis, women would want to believe that their husbands are behaving well and fidelity wouldn’t be much of an issue. But they only ‘would want to’ but due to ample reasons that may be ambiguous or not, they just can’t seem to put a hundred percent trust towards men. It’ll be like throwing yourself into the burning fire. However, there’s no harm in thinking that you’ve actually tried your best in making a good choice in life by marrying your husband.

Life is definitely better together than alone. But sometimes many things gets in the way and so many ideologies, thoughts, events and other external factors may influence an individual - resulting to separation and divorces. What’s the limit to compatibility? That’s for you to decide, though. But many simple couple’s arguments that usually involve trivial matters can be overcome. Try some of the steps below in order to protect your relationship.

Identify the issue

Express what have been bothering you with the best possible way. You should make sure that the things that you’re not particularly satisfied with is conveyed calmly, in order and peacefully.

Feel your feelings

Try to communicate with yourself more honestly and sincerely. Ask yourself what you really want, what you hope for and how you want things to be.

It’s time for more love quotes and poems! I’ve decided to put up a post a month on love poems and quotes so that it’ll only be extra bonus for next year’s Valentine. This time its love quotes from famous movies that I picked out because I think it’s outstandingly romantic and sweet. There are also quotes picked from famous people, which caught my attention and some poems that I wrote myself.

Yup, it’s great for your gift’s card right? You don’t need Valentines to get all romantic and sweet, you can use them to write it in a card for your lover’s birthday. But anyway everyday is a wooing day when you’re in love! *smiles*

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“I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One.”

- From the film City of Angels