Undeniably, love is ageless. But loving a younger man still doesn’t seem to ease things out…

And people say that love is blind too, but let’s just put the latter aside for while. Age gap seems to be quite a controversial issue and problem nowadays, whether it be in working life and even in a relationship. However, our main focus this time is something like the Catherine Zeta Jones - Michael Douglas kind of scenario. Relationship of a younger woman with an older man is not something unusual. As a matter of fact it is pretty common and natural since it was practiced even in the olden times. What happens when it is the other way around?

You’ve probably been through it, several times and can still feel a little touched by the same similar sad love songs, sad love poems and quotes. But what about those with no experience of failing in love. The human heart can take up so much, even to feel certain things beyond experience. We can feel sadness ourselves, and when it happens to others. Of course, it may not be the same but empathy comes in the virtue package for human beings.

This time, I wrote three on my own. Personal experience basis? Maybe, maybe not. but anyway, I hope you like this, and I personally find the first quote extremely meaningful for me. Oh well, what’s broken heart is for if it’s not for personal strength development? Even you had a sad love life or going through a tough break up, keep your chin up and at least face life bravely. Time will heal everything. Well, have a nice day people!

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To those who have the courage to love, should have the courage to suffer.
- Author Unknown

Defining a healthy relationship is not easy. It is harder than you think because when we say a person is having a healthy relationship, he or she should be happy almost at all times, right? Well, here’s the little trick - A person can be in a bad relationship but feels happy and like there is nothing wrong. How bad is a bad relationship, really? I say a little too much of control, a little too much of discrimination, a lot of one-side selfishness, and of course, anything that’s near DV (Domestic Violence).

A relationship can turn sour at times but that doesn’t mean that you’re having an unhealthy relationship. It’s going to occur in a number of times during your relationship because relationship itself, in nature never stays the same. It’ll change just as people do along the way.

Sometimes, you just have to know when to dump a guy, for his and your own sake.

Attaching yourself to something or someone usually takes a huge toll of responsibilities and commitment. Commitment is pretty much one word which reputation had much been tarnished. To certain people, they might even find this the ultimate ‘dirty word’ in a relationship. Well, you might even have came across this type of men quite frequently nowadays, he loves you and thinks you’re great and all but he was never ready for marriage. So you kept on asking (and waiting) when will he be ready and the answer was a mere silence. He just simply can’t have an answer to that - marriage was never part his vocabularies.

It’s not about being selfish or anything but women sure do have certain rights against some stuff when it comes to relationship. The factor written in the paragraph above was just one of those many reasons why you should just end it right there, honey. Not everyone can adapt to an open relationship, right? However, sometimes it’s not only the issues of the guy; it can sometimes be yours too. He may be nice and all, but you just don’t feel the chemistry anymore and you didn’t even bother trying out for help.