It is hard to define love because it may come in so many different ways that it becomes almost impossible to predict. You cannot force yourself to be in love and you cannot force love to come to you.

Forget love at first sight, you will often need the rare chemistry to have something as wonderful yet too good too be true event to happen to you…… How do you say that you love someone? Was it love or a mere likeness? Maybe the statements below can somehow guide you for the right answer.

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I was strolling around on the internet and suddenly many queries of open relationship/marriage just hit me, like a storm. I wonder what is actually playing in the minds of the people nowadays. Was it too much liberty & individuality? or could it be an evolution of freedom & straightforwardness that has brought us this concept. But then I realized, it was not something new after all…

“It doesn’t mean that I don’t love you, but I just want to feel a little more liberated,” he said.

Have you had the same sentence being said to you before? It doesn’t matter if it comes from his or her mouth, it’s just the same for both sex. He or she still wants to be with you but at the same time wants to be free from any commitments of a normal intimate relationship. We called this an “Open Relationship”, which specifies a relationship between two people, and these two people or either one of them is free to have other partners. Similarly, a married couple that made this kind of agreement is having an open marriage.

This is one of my favourite sonnet by Shakespeare: that whines about everlasting and eternal beauty of love rather than the love object itself, and perhaps nothing could have shaken the kind of beauty ever described .

SONNET 18

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm’d;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature’s changing course untrimm’d;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander’st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou growest:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this and this gives life to thee.

Sometimes it’s hard to tell, but sometimes the signs are obvious and they’re right in front of you. It could only, probably take a fool to read all the signs.

There’s always the BIG question when you’re thinking of starting a serious relationship: Are we meant for each other? Is he or she the right one for me? Finding out the answer may proof to be more difficult than said but it’s not something like you would have to solve the Da Vinci code to get the answers. Rather than listing the favorable signs, it is sometimes better to see the reverse. Here are some of the signs….

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